Go Confidently Archives | Norton Healthcare Mon, 03 Feb 2025 16:14:30 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://nortonhealthcare.com/wp-content/uploads/cropped-NHC_V_2CPOS_CMYK-32x32.jpg Go Confidently Archives | Norton Healthcare 32 32 Learning how to let go of grudges for your health https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/how-to-let-go-of-grudges Thu, 31 Oct 2019 16:45:04 +0000 https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/ Do you hold a grudge? If you do, you might want to think about letting go for the sake of your health. Author Megan Feldman Bettencourt, the October 2019 speaker at the Norton Healthcare Go Confidently series, spoke of the effects anger and resentment can have on your health. “We know that when we’re holding...

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Do you hold a grudge? If you do, you might want to think about letting go for the sake of your health.

Author Megan Feldman Bettencourt, the October 2019 speaker at the Norton Healthcare Go Confidently series, spoke of the effects anger and resentment can have on your health.

“We know that when we’re holding a grudge, when we’re angry, when we’re resentful over a long period of time, every time we think about that person or that event, we’re flooding our brains with stress chemicals,” Megan said. “Over time, what that does is, first of all, increases blood pressure.

“And it also really impacts our brains. So what happens is little by little, those stress chemicals impede the frontal lobe’s ability to solve problems. And the other thing it does it make us more likely to be depressed and anxious.”

That stress can lead to health issues.

“We know that some people, when stressed, depressed or anxious, may be more likely to do things such as overeat, not exercise, or smoke or drink more,” said Renée V. Girdler, M.D., family medicine physician with Norton Community Medical Associates – Crestwood. “In addition to a rise in blood pressure from the stress alone, these behaviors lead to an increased risk for heart disease.”

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Stress also can lead to more immediate issues that affect your life.

“Some people may have a headache, stomach issues or chest pain, or even have difficulty sleeping,” Dr. Girdler said.

Learning How to Let Go of a Grudge

If you’re holding that grudge and have high stress, you might want to learn to forgive.

According to the Go Confidently speaker, people who are good at forgiving are committed to it. They also share three key habits:

  1. Be authentic. In a situation where you are hurt and angry, let yourself feel the way you feel. You may need time to grieve. Be mindful and notice your reactions to situations big and small, which can help you learn to let that anger and stress go.
  2. Realize that forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same.

“The definition of forgiving is to release resentment,” Megan said. “You can release resentment and have a relationship with someone, or you can release resentment and never speak to that person again. There’s a lot of freedom in that.”

  1. Get in touch with your spiritual side. This does not need to mean religion, though many religions have practices that can help with this. It refers more to a greater purpose.

According to Megan, when you forgive, you often feel as if a literal weight has been lifted. This can make you feel more energetic. Being in touch spiritually also can make you feel as if you’re part of something larger than yourself.

“It just has to meaningful and purposeful for you,” Megan said.

Steps for Forgiveness

Do you need to practice forgiveness? Here are three steps Megan suggests:

  1. Think about someone you could forgive. It may be someone with whom you are annoyed or angry. Write a letter to that person. You don’t have to send it, but be sure to declare your forgiveness.
  2. Write a second letter to yourself. Self-forgiveness happens to be more difficult. Think about something you can forgive yourself for and a way to be more compassionate for yourself.
  3. Spend a little time thinking about your purpose and what drives you. What is something that inspired you or inspires you? What excites you or makes you feel ok? Once you know this, try to find a way to practice this activity or spend more time moving toward that purpose.

Go Confidently, held several times a year, is meant to inspire and motivate people to be the best versions of themselves. It is presented by the Norton Healthcare Foundation and Caretenders.

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How to improve your life through forgiveness https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/go-confidently-megan-feldman-bettencourt-improve-life-forgiveness Mon, 21 Oct 2019 06:00:55 +0000 https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/ Let it go. Megan Feldman Bettencourt’s book, “Triumph of the Heart: Forgiveness in an Unforgiving World,” explores research that shows the impact of forgiveness on our bodies and the damage caused by anger and resentment. It’s important to have a way to release resentment on a regular basis, according to Megan. In a recent interview,...

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Let it go.

Megan Feldman Bettencourt’s book, “Triumph of the Heart: Forgiveness in an Unforgiving World,” explores research that shows the impact of forgiveness on our bodies and the damage caused by anger and resentment.

It’s important to have a way to release resentment on a regular basis, according to Megan. In a recent interview, she suggested setting aside 10 minutes a day to write down all your negativity, then rip it up and throw it out.

Follow that up with some gratitude practice: Recognize three things for which you’re grateful.

Three Key Habits of Good Forgivers

Use these habits to help recover from tragedy, disappointment and conflict, as well as improve your health, well-being, relationships and professional performance.

  • Allow yourself to grieve.
  • Create boundaries when you forgive.
  • Have a spiritual practice.

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10 tips to your best life from Iris Apfel – fashion icon https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/iris-apfel-fashion-icon-go-confidently Mon, 08 Jul 2019 16:23:03 +0000 https://www.nortonhealthcare.com/news/ Iris Apfel, in her trademark oversized glasses and flair for bright style, has been going confidently for 97 years. Here, from her latest book – “Accidental Icon” – are some of Iris’ pearls. One size doesn’t fit all “I learned early on that I have to be my own person to be content,” Iris writes....

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Iris Apfel, in her trademark oversized glasses and flair for bright style, has been going confidently for 97 years.

Here, from her latest book – “Accidental Icon” – are some of Iris’ pearls.

One size doesn’t fit all

“I learned early on that I have to be my own person to be content,” Iris writes.

Iris recognizes that her style choices draw the labels “different” or “eccentric,” but attracting attention isn’t her intent.

“When you don’t dress like everyone else, you don’t have to think like everyone else,” she writes.

But ease into it. Being an original is going to work against you if you don’t try to be a part of things initially.

“Fit in first and then step out,” according to Iris.

The idea is to be perceived as an original and being accepted rather than being perceived as different and resented.

Iris’ thoughts on a long and happy marriage:

  • Have a sense of humor.
  • Respect each other.
  • Give each other space.
  • You won’t always agree, but try to stay on the same wavelength.
  • Don’t sacrifice how you are and accept who your partner is.
  • Don’t be petty.
  • Do new things together.
  • Accept you won’t always like the same things and people
  • If your partner doesn’t want to do something and you want to, do it anyway. Once in a while do something your partner wants to do.
  • Share new interests.

You can’t go home again

“If an experience was wonderful, don’t try to re-create it,” Iris writes. “It will never be as beautiful as it was the first time.”

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At this time, registration for the Go Confidently event with Iris Apfel is full. Please watch for information regarding our next Go Confidently event coming up in October.

“If you want to stay young, you have to think young”

Iris cites an old friend’s observation on aging — if you have two of anything, one of them is going to hurt when you get up in the morning.

But you have to keep moving.

“Having a sense of wonder, a sense of humor, and a sense of curiosity — these are my tonic. … I hold the self-proclaimed record for being the World’s Oldest Living Teenager and I intend to keep it that way,” Iris writes.

How to get away with anything

According to Iris: “If your hair is done properly and you’re wearing good shoes, you can get away with anything” in terms of dressing appropriately for your age and the occasion.

“People are not getting dressed anymore,” she writes. “Everybody looks like a mess, like they’re on their way to a shower bath or who knows where.”

This, as you might expect, particularly troubles Iris.

“When style and good manners go away, the whole culture seems to disintegrate,” she writes.

There’s nothing wrong with wrinkles

Trying to look years younger isn’t fooling anyone.

“To go get work done or get injections to try to make yourself look a few years younger is stupid. And the results are permanent, either,” according to Iris.

“Selling yourself for a buck is not worth the real price”

“If you’re happy, have found love, are surrounded by good people, doing what you like and giving back to others, that’s success,” Iris writes.

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A conversation with Iris Apfel https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/a-conversation-with-iris-apfel Wed, 03 Jul 2019 06:00:48 +0000 https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/ Thank you for your interest At this time, registration for the Go Confidently event with Iris Apfel is full. Please watch for information regarding our next Go Confidently event coming up in October. Legendary fashion icon Iris Apfel celebrates life by living boldly and being original. The eclectic subject of museum exhibits, documentaries and awards,...

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Thank you for your interest

At this time, registration for the Go Confidently event with Iris Apfel is full. Please watch for information regarding our next Go Confidently event coming up in October.

Legendary fashion icon Iris Apfel celebrates life by living boldly and being original. The eclectic subject of museum exhibits, documentaries and awards, Iris, 97, has curated a life in which she inspires others to find happiness through taking risks and reveling in uniqueness.

Join Iris to learn her secrets to success — and how to live your happiest, most eclectic life.

Go Confidently is sponsored in part by the Norton Healthcare Foundation with support from:

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  • McMasters Keith Butler, Inc.
  • UBS
  • Bluegrass Motor Sport

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Learn the secrets to a long life at free Go Confidently event https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/go-confidently-long-life-secrets Thu, 14 Jun 2018 19:12:39 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2720 The life expectancy of an American born today is about 78.2 years. But this year, over 70,000 Americans will celebrate their 100th birthday. What are they doing that the average person isn’t (or won’t)? Join Tony Buettner, senior vice president of business development for Blue Zones, to learn how to live longer, better. Tony will...

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The life expectancy of an American born today is about 78.2 years. But this year, over 70,000 Americans will celebrate their 100th birthday. What are they doing that the average person isn’t (or won’t)?

Join Tony Buettner, senior vice president of business development for Blue Zones, to learn how to live longer, better. Tony will discuss Blue Zones — pockets around the world where people live measurably longer and better — and the nine common diet and lifestyle habits that keep people spry past age 100.

Bring a friend and unlock a science-backed blueprint for how to find your path to long life and health. Guests will receive a free one-day pass to LouVelo, Louisville’s official bike sharing program!

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11 more habits for a healthier, happier life https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/tony-buettner-go-confidently-11-more-healthier-life-habits Fri, 08 Jun 2018 19:12:39 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2709 This content was originally published on BlueZones.com. Published here courtesy of Blue Zones and Tony Buettner. From our research in the healthiest and happiest places in the world, here are some habits to take up in 2018 —they’ll enrich your life and boost your health and happiness levels too. Don’t try all of the things...

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This content was originally published on BlueZones.com. Published here courtesy of Blue Zones and Tony Buettner.

From our research in the healthiest and happiest places in the world, here are some habits to take up in 2018 —they’ll enrich your life and boost your health and happiness levels too.

Don’t try all of the things below at one time. Choose a few, make them habits, and revisit when they’re part of your daily routine.

Move more

Moving naturally throughout the day — walking, gardening, doing housework — is a core part of the Blue Zones lifestyle. A day of sitting down — at work, in your car, on your couch — can’t be fixed by spending 30 minutes in the gym. So get up and move throughout the day, taking frequent stretch breaks, choosing the stairs over the elevator, and 5- to 10-minute walks throughout the day.

Get out, every day

Even if you work from home or are caring for young children or family members at home, make a point to get out as much as you can.

Eat more veggies!

Eating seven or more portions of fruit and veggies a day can lower your risk of premature death by a whopping 42 percent.

Eat less meat and dairy

Study authors found that substituting 3 percent of daily calories from animal protein with plant protein was associated with a lower risk for death from all causes — a 34 percent drop when participants swapped out processed red meat for plant protein, and a 19 percent decrease when they replaced eggs.

There is considerable scientific evidence that healthy dietary patterns such as the Mediterranean diet are associated with lower Alzheimer’s risk and slower cognitive decline. The Mediterranean diet is high in vegetables, beans, fruit, and nuts, and low in meat and dairy.

Nurture your religion or spirituality

In all Blue Zones regions, centenarians were part of a religious community.

“People who pay attention to their spiritual side have lower rates of cardiovascular disease, depression, stress, and suicide, and their immune systems seem to work better … To a certain extent, adherence to a religion allows them to relinquish the stresses of everyday life to a higher power.” –Dan Buettner

Get involved in your community

Join a local group or volunteer in your community. The happiest cities have high community engagement and environments that foster social connections.

“Belong” is one of the Blue Zones Power 9, the lifestyle habits shared by the longest-lived people on earth.

Volunteer more

People who volunteer tend to lose weight, have lower rates of heart disease and report higher levels of happiness. Decide what you do best and volunteer your time. Make a point of signing up this month. People who find meaningful ways to give back are also happier.

Make new friends

Make a new happy friend — that’s one of the best things you can do to boost your happiness level. Your happiness will go up by 15 percent. How to do this? See the above three habits.

Enjoy your meals, but stop eating before you’re stuffed

Seniors in the Blue Zones region of Okinawa, Japan, eat until they’re 80 percent full, a practice and phrase called hara hachi bu. This healthy practice of calorie restriction and mindful eating promotes health and longevity.

Make Sunday a meal-plan, meal-prep, meal-making day

Cook a big batch of something healthy that you can use for several lunches and dinners for the week ahead. Use the day to cut up veggies and have them ready to go as snacks and sides. Try the Blue Zones Meal Planner if you’re looking for a digital tool to help you along the way.

Sign up to be an organ donor

There isn’t a more powerful few minutes than signing up to be an organ donor. You never have to lift a finger. It is the laziest, most excellent good deed that you can do that will give you a happiness boost.

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Hara Hachi Bu: Enjoy food and lose weight with this simple Japanese phrase https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/go-confidently-tony-buettner-hara-hachi-bu Wed, 06 Jun 2018 19:12:38 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2704   Americans are always trying a wide range of techniques to drop excess weight. But the key to successful weight loss may be found halfway around the world in Okinawa, Japan. Okinawa is one of the world’s Blue Zones regions, or exceptional hot spots where people live extraordinarily long and healthy lives. I started exploring and identifying the...

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Americans are always trying a wide range of techniques to drop excess weight. But the key to successful weight loss may be found halfway around the world in Okinawa, Japan. Okinawa is one of the world’s Blue Zones regions, or exceptional hot spots where people live extraordinarily long and healthy lives. I started exploring and identifying the Blue Zones regions of the world more than 20 years ago, and my November 2005 National Geographic article on longevity, “The Secrets of Living Longer,” put these Blue Zones regions on the map.

For almost 1,000 years, the Japanese archipelago of Okinawa has maintained a reputation for nurturing extreme longevity. Okinawans over the age of 65 enjoy the world’s highest life expectancy: Men are expected to live to about 84, while women are expected to live to almost age 90. They suffer only a fraction of diseases that kill Americans: a fifth the rate of cardiovascular disease, a fifth the rate of breast and prostate cancer, and less than half the rate of dementia seen among similarly aged Americans.

Hara Hachi Bu: Stop eating when you’re 80 percent full

If you’ve ever been lucky enough to eat with an Okinawan elder, you’ve invariably heard them intone this Confucian-inspired adage before beginning the meal: hara hachi bu — a reminder to stop eating when their stomachs are 80 percent full. This cultural practice of calorie restriction and mindful eating is part of the reason that Okinawa has a higher percentage of centenarians than anywhere else in the world.

The average daily intake of an Okinawan is only about 1,900 calories, significantly less than the average number of calories consumed by a typical American, especially those who are middle-aged.  According to research by the USDA, the average American man consumes over 2,500 calories, with his food intake reaching its peak when he is in his 40s, topping out at an average of 2,692 calories. For women, the same trend holds true. The average American woman consumes 1,766 calories. Women in their 40s consume more than any other age group, with an average daily intake of 1,879 calories.

According to the Mayo Clinic Calorie Calculator, an average size 40-year-old woman only needs 1,500 to 1,700 calories per day to maintain a healthy body weight, unless she participates in physical exercise most days of the week. For men, 1,900 to 2,150 calories are needed to maintain an average-size frame. So how can learning a simple Okinawan tradition pull these calorie counts into balance?

Why Hara Hachi Bu works

Brian Wansink, author of Mindless Eating, conducts innovative research into food habits. In repeated experiments he found that eaters are often affected by variables unrelated to whether or not their stomachs were full. Plates, glasses, food packages, friends and a wide range of circumstances can all affect how much we consume. For example, Wansink’s experiments showed that people eat 31 percent more if they eat from a 34-ounce bowl compared to a 17-ounce one. It doesn’t matter which fad a dieter is using, external factors may still cause overeating.

The secret to eating in moderation in the long run is emulating the environment and habits of the Okinawan people. Wansink explains why in Blue Zones: Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who’ve Lived the Longest. He says, “There is a significant calorie gap between when an American says, ‘I’m full’ and an Okinawan says, ‘I’m no longer hungry.’ We gain weight insidiously, not stuffing ourselves, but eating a little bit too much each day — mindlessly.”

How to put Hara Hachi Bu into practice

Simple changes in everyday eating habits can help put the secret of hara hachi bu into practice for improved health or for weight loss. Anyone can make changes to their eating patterns or environment, enjoy food and learn to eat only until they are 80 percent full.

Get started with these easy tips.

  • Eat more slowly. Eating faster results in eating more. Slow down to allow your body to respond to cues, which tell us we are no longer hungry.
  • Focus on food. Turn off the TV and the computer. If you’re going to eat, just eat. You’ll eat more slowly, consume less and savor the food more.
  • Use small vesselsChoose to eat on smaller plates and use tall, narrow glasses. You’re likely to eat significantly less without even thinking about it.

Adapted from Dan Buettner’s article originally published on Psychology Todayin January 2011.

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]]> 10 habits for healthier, happier life https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/10-habits-for-healthier-happier-life Tue, 22 May 2018 19:12:37 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2685   This content was originally published on BlueZones.com. Published here courtesy of Blue Zones and Tony Buettner. From our research in the healthiest and happiest places in the world, here are some habits to take up in 2018 —they’ll enrich your life and boost your health and happiness levels too. Instead of focusing on an...

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This content was originally published on BlueZones.com. Published here courtesy of Blue Zones and Tony Buettner.

From our research in the healthiest and happiest places in the world, here are some habits to take up in 2018 —they’ll enrich your life and boost your health and happiness levels too.

Instead of focusing on an outcome like “lose 20 pounds” or “exercise every day,” focus on acquiring life-enhancing new habits. We are creatures of habit and products of our surroundings, so optimizing our environments and routines will yield a much higher rate of success.

Don’t try all of the things below at one time. Choose a few, make them habits, and revisit when they’re part of your daily routine.

Good news, you don’t have to ditch your morning coffee

In original Blue Zones areas, people drink up to two or three cups of black coffee per day! The American Heart Association found that consuming coffee, both caffeinated and decaf, was associated with a lower risk of total mortality.

However, if your morning joe is filled with cream and sugar, then slowly weaning off the sugar and switching to a non-dairy milk is a new habit to take up this year. To really Blue Zones your coffee or tea routine, make coffee or afternoon tea dates with friends or family to chat, laugh and get that face-to-face time that’s so important to health and happiness.

Get a dog

Furry friends like cats and dogs help with loneliness and companionship and happiness, but getting a dog also encourages people to walk often and regularly.

Invest in smaller plates

To avoid meal stuffing, use 10n-inch plates. Research shows that when you go from a 12-inch plate to a 10-inch plate, you end up eating 23 percent less.

Eat more beans and pulses

Instead of focusing on what you’re going to cut out of your diet, start by focusing on what you need to add into your meals.

Beans are the No. 1 longevity food and a staple in all five Blue Zones regions. A cup of beans are standard among the world’s longest-lived people, so stock up on chickpeas, lentils, black beans, kidney beans, soybeans and all other beans and pulses. You can enjoy them in hummus, soups, stews and salads.

Know and nurture your purpose

Having a purpose in life is a proven link to living longer. What’s the most likely demographic to live past 100? Women who’ve had children after 40.  “Embrace your ikigai,” as they say in Japan. “Ikigai” is your reason to get up every morning.

Create downshifting, stress-relieving habits

Chronic stress leads to inflammation and is the foundation for every age-related disease, including Alzheimer’s and dementia. Centenarians in the Blue Zones regions of the world have effective ways to manage stress on a daily basis. For Sardinians, this means a glass of wine and a chat with friends at the end of the day. For Seventh-Day Adventists in Loma Linda, this means a quiet nature walk during Sabbath. As an alternative to downshifting at happy hour, try meditating. Even just 10 minutes each day can improve your outlook and lower stress.

“Downshift” is one of the Blue Zones Power 9, the lifestyle habits shared by the longest-lived people on earth.

Enjoy wine at 5

People in four original Blue Zones areas drink alcohol moderately and regularly. Studies show moderate drinkers have a lower chance of mortality and an increased chance of maintaining cognitive abilities into old age.

“Wine at 5” is one of the Blue Zones Power 9, the lifestyle habits shared by the longest-lived people on earth.

Find a new hobby or join a group

Get a new hobby or nurture one you already have by joining a meetup or community group. It can be a book club, starting a garden, or a walking club. Even two hours of bowling can burn 490 calories, and having fun will give you a healthy happiness boost too.

Sit down to eat meals with family and friends

The happiest kids in the world, Dutch children, sit down to eat breakfast with their family more regularly than any other kids in the world.

“Loved Ones First” is one of the Blue Zones Power 9, the lifestyle habits shared by the longest-lived people on earth.

Get enough sleep

Do your best to always sleep 7.5 hours a night, which helps keep your immune system functioning at its best. People who sleep 6 hours a night are 30 percent less happy than people who sleep more.

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Laura Vanderkam shares her strategies for tracking your time https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/laura-vanderkam-strategies-tracking-time Wed, 07 Mar 2018 20:12:34 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2613 I wanted to share a few discoveries I have made in my almost two years of logging my time use. First, it is OK to lose some detail. A lot of people get sidetracked because they aren’t doing any one thing for half an hour, and so they decide to describe each individual minute or...

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I wanted to share a few discoveries I have made in my almost two years of logging my time use.

First, it is OK to lose some detail. A lot of people get sidetracked because they aren’t doing any one thing for half an hour, and so they decide to describe each individual minute or activity, and then the whole task becomes overwhelming.

I was up with the toddler at 5:25 a.m. this morning. During the next hour, we read several books, I made coffee, we played a bit, we watched the Olympics, I changed a lovely diaper and so forth. On my log, the 5:30 and 6 slots became “coffee/watch Olympics w/A.” Plenty of weekend slots become “hangout w/family.” I often just write “work” during my work slots, even though I might be on the phone and then on email and then writing something, etc. If I wanted to drill down on work hours in order to boost efficiency there, I might decide to be more granular. If I thought that my multitasking was so bad it was destroying my life, then I might want to track individual distractions. It is a personal choice, though, based on goals.

Second, time tracking is more about landmarks than continuity. I notice that during days I am off my computer, I do a quick glance at the clock occasionally and make a mental note of the time and what I am doing. This then allows me to reconstruct the day later based on these markers. It is kind of like if you were describing how to get to the local library (go out the driveway, turn left at the light, turn right past the fire station, then a left at the stop sign and you’ll see it!). I can generally do a full 24 hours this way. If you are just starting to track time, that will be harder, but you can jot down a few highlights on a sticky note or something and reconstruct the whole thing on a log later.

During days you are near your log sheet, it helps to have some sort of trigger to remember to record your time. A practical one: Every time you take a bathroom break, write down what you did since the last one.

Another reason this becomes easier: People’s lives have certain rhythms. After a few days you will likely notice that you are getting up around the same time and eating around the same time and doing similar things upon returning home. You don’t have to remember as much because you can make an educated guess that if you were showering at 7 a.m. Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, the odds are good you did so on Thursday as well. Weekends can be a free-for-all, which is what makes them harder to track. But it is precisely because weekends are nebulous that it can be enlightening to track them.

I don’t find time tracking onerous, which is why I’ve been doing it for the last 16 months. When I have people reconstruct the previous day in workshops, it seldom takes more than a few minutes. But if you do find it to be a pain, it might help to tell yourself that it is only for seven days. Or even just for three! (Sunday-Monday-Tuesday could give a good picture of many people’s lives). The insights gained from tracking can help you tweak your schedule, and then you never have to do it again if you don’t want to. But you might want to! I find it helpful enough that it’s worth the effort.

Follow Laura Vanderkam’s blog at LauraVanderkam.com.

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We all have the same number of hours in a week – how to make the most of them https://nortonhealthcare.com/news/laura-vanderkam-168-hours-in-a-week-go-confidently Wed, 28 Feb 2018 20:12:34 +0000 http://nortonhealthcaretest1.flywheelsites.com/?page_id=2608 Have you ever uttered the words, “If only I had more time …”? Of course, we all have! No matter your lifestyle, family unit, professional or personal demands, you’ve no doubt been overwhelmed by feeling like there aren’t enough hours in the day. We caught up with time management expert and bestselling author Laura Vanderkam...

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Have you ever uttered the words, “If only I had more time …”? Of course, we all have!

No matter your lifestyle, family unit, professional or personal demands, you’ve no doubt been overwhelmed by feeling like there aren’t enough hours in the day.

We caught up with time management expert and bestselling author Laura Vanderkam for some quick tips on how to make the most of the time we have. She’ll be dishing out a lot more during the March 12 installment of Norton Healthcare’s free Go Confidently speaker series.

Mastering the balancing act

Time management is something most of us have struggled with.

Even Vanderkam is no stranger to the struggle. About 10 years ago, the then-new-mom was faced with a challenge: How do I master the balancing act of parent and professional?

“I knew I wanted to do both things,” Vanderkam said. “I was drawn to people who were doing both — succeeding personally and professionally.”

She set out on a mission to slow the proverbial flying of time, or at least better manipulate it.

“There’s no perfect hack to free up all kinds of time in your life; no special trick with email or special thing around the house to make chores magically take less time,” Vanderkam said.

No one particular thing will change your life completely, but Vanderkam suggests a number of strategies you can implement to make the most of your time.

Identify what’s important to you

“What will change your life is deciding, even though the house is messy, I want to read this book,” Vanderkam said.

Many people wait until everything else is taken care of before doing the things they want to do. Ringing phones and overflowing inboxes are just a couple things that demand our attention.

“If you spend all of your time on those things, the day can get away from you — the week, month, year — and then you never spend time on the things that are important but not necessarily clamoring for attention,” Vanderkam said.

Think about what you want to spend more time doing, and do it.

“That unread email will still be there, but you will have made progress on the thing that is important to you,” Vanderkam said.

Journal your time

Vanderkam says one of the best ways to get a sense of where your time is going is to write it down in a journal. People generally think they have a good idea of where their time is going. Until they journal it, they don’t have a realistic sense of how it’s being used.

Once she started tracking her time, Vanderkam discovered that even though she works from home, she was spending a lot more time on the road than she thought.

“I realized I was spending about an hour a day in the car for various things that weren’t a daily commute, and I wasn’t doing anything with that time that was meaningful to me,” Vanderkam said.

She decided to make better use of her time in the car by listening to audiobooks and podcasts.

Build space in your schedule

Saying that you don’t have enough time is an excuse. If something is a priority, you will make time for it. If it’s not a priority, Vanderkam reminds us that it is OK to say no. You are in control of your time.

“Time is a choice,” she said. “Of course, there will be terrible consequences if you don’t make certain choices, but in the long run it is a choice.”

Many successful people Vanderkam has studied have a surprising amount of open space in their schedules.

“Being busy is not a badge of honor,” she said.

Open space invites opportunity in a way that a cluttered calendar just can’t do. It’s about realizing that we don’t have to do everything.

Plan, plan, plan

Planning is key. It’s something Vanderkam didn’t do earlier in her life.

“I realized that people who were having fun weekends, as opposed to weekends that were all chores, were thinking ahead to make sure they had time for things that were fun and rejuvenating,” she said.

Thinking through her weekends ahead of time is a strategy Vanderkam adopted when she became a mother. Scheduling activities in advance helps ensure everyone’s needs are met and the things that are important to us actually happen.

Planning doesn’t mean you have to relinquish spontaneity in your life.

“You just need to get the structure in place and then you can be spontaneous within it,” Vanderkam said.

For example, if you and your partner have a babysitter for the night, you can create spontaneity within that planned evening away from the kids. Maybe you choose to walk or drive around a neighborhood and spontaneously select a spot to dine for the evening.

Think in terms of 168 hours

You may feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day, but there are plenty of hours in the week — 168 to be exact. Vanderkam challenges us to stop pressuring ourselves to accomplish it all within 24 hours and start thinking in terms of 168 hours.

“Many people find this to be a complete breakthrough in terms of no longer feeling like they are failing at everything,” she said. “Just because something didn’t happen today, we don’t have to say it is not a priority in our life or it is not important to us.”

One example of how this can yield positive results is with exercise. If you didn’t exercise today, you’re not a failure. Just make sure you find time for it within the 168 hours. Maybe you choose to exercise four times per week — you’ve got a full seven days to make that goal happen. There won’t be a perfect time every single day for exercise. You have to make it happen when you can.

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